I will basically ask you to read the first two posts in this thread again. In summary:
- The DEBUG pinout is already shown in the second post
- It is in my opinion a much better idea that you solder on a typical header on these boards rather than the module itself, but feel free to do things any way you want
- With regards to TPM module, I recommend that you go for a “long” rather than a “flat” module. This will very likely make motherboard installation a lot easier. See for instance this post